A Perfect Match

La Mesa, California
SEEDS member
Year founded
2000
Babies born
500
Time to match with surrogate
3 months
Journey length
13 months
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Our mission is to provide professional and caring services to those who would like to be parents via egg donation and/or gestational surrogacy. We treat our donors and surrogates with all the respect they deserve.

Services0 of 6 offered

Billing managementnot offered
Case managementnot offered
Counseling & supportnot offered
Fertility loansnot offered
In-house attorneynot offered
Escrow managementnot offered

Surrogate screening0 of 8 offered

Criminal background checknot offered
Financial reviewnot offered
Home visitsnot offered
Medical records reviewnot offered
Medical screeningnot offered
Psychological screeningnot offered
Social worker screeningnot offered
Surrogate's insurance reviewnot offered

Fees

Total cost (minimum)
Not provided
Total cost (maximum)
Not provided
Agency fee (domestic)
$30,000
Agency fee (international)
$30,000
Surrogate compensation (1st time)
Not provided
Surrogate compensation (experienced)
Not provided

Timelines

Time to match with surrogate
3 months
Time to match with intended parents
Not provided
The typical time from matching with a surrogate to the birth of the child.
13 months

Memberships3 of 5

SEEDS (Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy) promotes ethical standards and best practices in egg donation and surrogacy. Agency membership indicates that the agency has joined SEEDS and agrees to follow its membership standards and ethical guidelines.ASRM (American Society for Reproductive Medicine) is a professional organization dedicated to advancing reproductive medicine. ASRM membership is held by individuals, so this indicates that a member of the agency’s team is an ASRM member—not that the agency itself is an ASRM member.BBB (Better Business Bureau) promotes trust between businesses and consumers. BBB Accreditation indicates that a business has been accredited by BBB and agrees to meet its Standards for Trust.Family Equality advocates for LGBTQ+ families and works to advance equality through advocacy, education, and support. An agency’s partnership or support of Family Equality indicates a commitment to advancing equality for LGBTQ+ families.RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association supports people experiencing infertility and building families through education, advocacy, support, and community. An agency or team member’s membership or involvement indicates a connection to RESOLVE and its family-building mission.
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  • Matt QuigleyApr 2026Intended Parent

    At first we looked at the larger surrogacy agencies. We met good, well-intentioned people at these agencies, but we found some communication offputting and delayed. It was apparent to us that the bigger companies have to deal with a lot of volume. I'm sure they have great people working at those companies, but I was concerned that we wouldn't get the attentive service and communication we…

  • Hayley AlvarezOct 2025Surrogate

    From the very beginning, my experience with A Perfect Match was nothing short of incredible. Becoming a surrogate was one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, and I’m so grateful I chose to work with A Perfect Match. From the very first call, their team was kind, professional, and incredibly supportive. They guided me through every step with care and made sure I always felt valued and…

  • Alexandra HokoOct 2025Surrogate

    I wanted to be a surrogate after I had my son 10 years ago but couldn’t for various reasons. A few years ago I saw an ad on facebook asking I was interested and immediately was like oh, I forgot about that! I did a lot of research and talked to a lot of agencies and decided to move forward with A Perfect Match. I love them. They were so friendly and so helpful and everyone has been a surrogate…

  • Jamie CobianSep 2024Surrogate

    If you are looking to be a surrogate I would highly recommend APM! Everyone here is super kind and treat the surrogates like family. They are so loving and make you feel at home and they explain any questions you have about the whole process. They matched me with a wonderful family and the whole journey was beautiful and easy thanks to them! Ruth and Susan are amazing !

  • Cailyn ColeMay 2024Intended Parent

    Please educate your staff on sensitivity training and tactfulness. I just received a disgusting rejection response that I found to be almost bafflingly insensitive. Maybe just a simple rejection would be better with no details, not saying within the email "Please know that we do not wish to imply in any way that this will affect your chances of having normal, healthy children." What on earth kind of thing is that to say?

  • Marissa SpartzMar 2024Surrogate

    This review was way overdue. I had my first surrogacy journey almost three years and let me say I couldn’t be happier. From the moment I applied and first spoke to the team of wonderful women that run this agency I knew I was going to be in the best hands possible. Throughout my entire journey I was always reminded of how special I was and always felt appreciated. Everyone here makes you feel…

  • Nichole OgdenFeb 2024Surrogate

    Susan and Ruth were nothing short of amazing during the entire process! Ruth made me feel comfortable from application to after birth and same with Susan! Amazing ladies that made for an incredible experience. I had the most amazing family and I’m so grateful for this experience! Thank you APM for making the surrogates feel so important!🩷

  • Brianna DanielsJan 2024Surrogate

    If you’re looking for a thoughtful, well organized, detail-oriented surrogacy agency A Perfect Match is the best way to go! They balance professionalism and thoughtfulness so perfectly within this industry. It has been such a joy to work with APM as a surrogate, and I will absolutely be doing it again with them! Ruth and Susan made the entire surrogacy journey so easy, answering all of my…

  • Salina McKeeJan 2024Surrogate

    My surrogacy experience with A Perfect Match was everything I hoped it would be and more. Both ladies that helped me were amazing. Ruth matched me with the perfect family whom I have a very close relationship with now. Susan was so great to make sure everything was in order through the whole process. They both made me feel very comfortable and showed genuine care and concern for my well being. If you are considering surrogacy you will not find a better agency to help you in your journey!

  • Shayna GonzalezAug 2023