Stronger Together Surrogacy
Murrieta, CaliforniaAbout
Stronger Together Surrogacy began with founder Ashley's vision after her first twin surrogacy journey in 2010. Now a five-time surrogate, including three twin journeys, she supports women who want to become surrogates and guides intended parents, building connections all over the world.
ServicesUpdated by agency · Aug 2026
Escrow managementUpdated by agency · Aug 2026
Surrogate screeningUpdated by agency · Aug 2026
FeesUpdated by agency · Aug 2026
- The lowest estimated total cost of a surrogacy journey, including the agency fee and other expected expenses. Does not include fertility clinic-related expenses.
- $165,000
- The highest estimated total cost of a surrogacy journey, including the agency fee and other expected expenses. Does not include fertility clinic-related expenses.
- $195,000
- The fee charged to intended parents for its services and support throughout the surrogacy journey.
- $45,000
- An additional fee charged to intended parents who live outside the United States.
- None
Surrogate compensationUpdated by agency · Aug 2026
- The starting base compensation for a surrogate on her first journey.
- $60,000
- Additional compensation for surrogates who live in California. “None” means the agency confirmed there is no supplement.
- + $10,000
- The starting base compensation for a surrogate who has completed a previous journey.
- $70,000
- Additional compensation for surrogates who live in California. “None” means the agency confirmed there is no supplement.
- + $10,000
TimelinesUpdated by agency · Aug 2026
- The typical estimated time for intended parents to be matched with a surrogate.
- 6 months
- The typical estimated time for a surrogate to be matched with intended parents.
- 2 months
- The typical time from matching with a surrogate to the birth of the child.
- 13 months
Memberships
Team
As a four-time surrogate, I can honestly say that my experience with Stronger Together Surrogacy has been incredible. They have been by my side through every one of my journeys, providing unwavering support, guidance, and care from start to finish. Surrogacy is such a meaningful and life-changing experience, and having a team that genuinely cares about both the surrogate and the intended parents makes all the difference. Their communication, professionalism, and compassion are truly exceptional. No matter the question or concern, I always knew I had a team I could rely on. They work tirelessly to create positive experiences for everyone involved and make the process as smooth as possible. I highly recommend Stronger Together Surrogacy to anyone considering surrogacy, whether as a surrogate or intended parent. Their dedication, kindness, and commitment to helping families grow are truly unmatched. Thank you for making each of my journeys such a rewarding and memorable experience. — Marissa Vultaggio ❤️…
STS was SUPER attentive and compassionate about all of my (as a surrogate) and the intended parents’ needs! We loved our agent, Karen Hoffenkamp and would DEFINITELY go through this agency again if I ever decide to surrogate another baby. Thank you so much STS for making the whole experience super easy and enjoyable throughout the entire journey!!
The best agency I've ever known. Thank you for helping me find the perfect person for my journey to fatherhood. I am so grateful for your kindness, attention, and support. Thank you so much.
I had an amazing experience with Stronger Together Surrogacy. I matched with a surrogate within six months. My agency coordinator was phenomenal. She helped build a relationship between myself and the surrogate and was always available for personal consultation. The coordinator kept me on track throughout the process and provided summaries and explanations of what to expect, and what actions I needed to take. She took much of the stress and burden off of me during this process. I highly recommend this agency.…
I am a 4 time surrogate and have known Ashley M from the very beginning. Every single time, she ALWAYS answered the phone or shot a text saying she'd call me back. Every silly or far-fetched question I had was answered without making me feel like a burden or annoyance - and trust me, there were A LOT. This time, Kassie is my coordinator and she has also been phenomenal. Both of them are so patient and communicative. No question, big or small, goes unanswered. There are so many hoops to jump through being a surrogate, but they keep everything organized and make it as easy and painless as possible. This agency really cares about intended patents, surrogates, and the process that they really put their hearts into it. I promise you, you can't go wrong working with STS.…
I would definitely recommend Stronger Together! All the ladies I have worked with are all amazing and help guide you with a smooth process.
I’ve had a great experience so far with Stronger Together Surrogacy! I’m currently still in the legal phase of my journey, but everything up to this point has been incredibly smooth, organized, and supportive. Karen has been absolutely amazing to work with. She is kind, responsive, and genuinely makes you feel cared for throughout the process. She does a great job of explaining things clearly and keeping me updated, which has made this whole experience feel so much less stressful and much more exciting. Even though I’m still in the early stages, I already feel really confident and supported in this journey and I’m looking forward to what’s ahead!…
As a first time surrogate, I went into this journey with a mix of excitement and nerves. Choosing the right agency was incredibly important, and I’m so grateful I found one that has met every expectation and more. From the very beginning my coordinator has been supportive, communicative, and genuinely caring. She made sure I understood each step of the process. I have felt heard, appreciated, and well taken care of so far in my journey. She recognizes that this is not just a process, but a meaningful and emotional experience and she has been their every step of the way cheering me on. I can’t recommend Stronger Together enough. Forever grateful for this journey!…
I completed a surrogacy journey (2024-2025) with Stronger Together Surrogacy as a gestational carrier, and I can confidently say it was the best surrogacy experience I’ve had. This was my second surrogacy journey (my first was in 2020–2021 with a different agency), and I’ve also seen my sister-in-law go through two of her own journeys (also different agency), so I had some comparisons going in. Stronger Together exceeded every expectation. From the very beginning, I felt truly celebrated and valued as a surrogate. My coordinator, Brittnee, and the owner, Ashley, as well as the director, Ashley C, went above and beyond. They were fantastic with checking in regularly, celebrating milestones, and treating me like a whole person, not just a box to check off. They showered me with thoughtful gifts, encouragement, and genuine care. The intended parents I was matched with were absolutely perfect for us. It’s a connection I can only describe as life-changing. Thanks to their thoughtful matching process, I now have extended family halfway across the world. That kind of bond wouldn’t have been possible without the STS team, and the IPs and I marvel at that frequently. To put things in perspective, before finding Stronger Together, I tried to do a repeat journey with my first agency. They matched me with IPs, allowed us to exchange personal contact information, and then — a month later — I was suddenly told their doctor had denied me even though the clinic had accepted my records (I’m told the doctor wanted a first time GC). The match fell through by no fault of the IPs, and while the agency initially said they could rematch me, a few weeks later they called to say they were dropping me completely. My husband and I had even done an unpaid marketing shoot for that agency, and while they still use the photos and videos on their website and socials, they never even delivered the final edits to us or the IPs like they’d agreed to. That whole experience left me feeling disposable and defeated. Connecting with Stronger Together turned that all around. They restored my faith in surrogacy agencies and showed me what true care, transparency, and advocacy for surrogates looks like. My experience with them has been so positive that it’s inspired me to pursue work in this industry because I want others to feel supported and valued the way I did. If you’re considering agencies, I highly recommend Stronger Together Surrogacy. They honor each journey, and they honor the women who make them possible.…
I completed a surrogacy journey (2024-2025) with Stronger Together Surrogacy as a gestational carrier, and I can confidently say it was the best surrogacy experience I’ve had. This was my second surrogacy journey (my first was in 2020–2021 with a different agency), and I’ve also seen my sister-in-law go through two of her own journeys (also different agency), so I had some comparisons going in. Stronger Together exceeded every expectation. From the very beginning, I felt truly celebrated and valued as a surrogate. My coordinator, Brittnee, and the owner, Ashley, as well as the director, Ashley C, went above and beyond. They were fantastic with checking in regularly, celebrating milestones, and treating me like a whole person, not just a box to check off. They showered me with thoughtful gifts, encouragement, and genuine care. The intended parents I was matched with were absolutely perfect for us. It’s a connection I can only describe as life-changing. Thanks to their thoughtful matching process, I now have extended family halfway across the world. That kind of bond wouldn’t have been possible without the STS team, and the IPs and I marvel at that frequently. To put things in perspective, before finding Stronger Together, I tried to do a repeat journey with my first agency. They matched me with IPs, allowed us to exchange personal contact information, and then — a month later — I was suddenly told their doctor had denied me even though the clinic had accepted my records (I’m told the doctor wanted a first time GC). The match fell through by no fault of the IPs, and while the agency initially said they could rematch me, a few weeks later they called to say they were dropping me completely. My husband and I had even done an unpaid marketing shoot for that agency, and while they still use the photos and videos on their website and socials, they never even delivered the final edits to us or the IPs like they’d agreed to. That whole experience left me feeling disposable and defeated. Connecting with Stronger Together turned that all around. They restored my faith in surrogacy agencies and showed me what true care, transparency, and advocacy for surrogates looks like. My experience with them has been so positive that it’s inspired me to pursue work in this industry because I want others to feel supported and valued the way I did. If you’re considering agencies, I highly recommend Stronger Together Surrogacy. They honor each journey, and they honor the women who make them possible.…
Could not be any happier with the agency I choose! This is my first journey and Stronger Together has made this process smooth and easy with so many answers to my questions. All the ladies that have helped me all have been wonderful! Will always recommend Stronger Together!!!
The absolute best experience — from day one STS has been so helpful, caring and experienced! As a now second time surrogate, I am so grateful I went with Stronger Together, they have made a lasting impact on my live (and so many others). They are very passionate about what they do and truly care for their surrogates AND intended parents! Highly recommend.
I’ve had a great experience with Stronger Together Surrogacy. (SO great in fact, I’ve chosen to use them for multiple journeys now!) From the beginning, their communication has been consistent and supportive, which has made every step of the process feel much less overwhelming. They’re always responsive and genuinely care about both surrogates and intended parents. I’ve felt well taken care of and never left guessing about what comes next. I truly love working with them and feel confident recommending them to anyone considering surrogacy.…
This is my first time as a surrogate with stronger together surrogacy, and I have nothing but positive things to say. My coordinator has been by my side every step of the way. Always gets back to me as soon as possible. It’s been great also having all the support of other surrogates on Facebook. I’ve always felt heard and never alone during my journey. I’ve never had to worry about anything as to paperwork my coordinator always took care of everything.
Working with STS for my 3rd surrogacy journey was such a wonderful experience. Communication was always open and i never felt silly for asking “dumb” questions. I always felt very supported throughout my journey. Since I had completed 2 journeys prior, i had a good understanding of the steps you take to start that process & where i need support most during my journey. They sent milestone markers to take pictures with and cute little care packages at important moments in your journey. They definitely make you feel showered with love and support from beginning to end (& even after). Our timeline completion: We officially started the journey in 08/2024, matched with IP’s in 09/2024, medically cleared in 02/2025, legally cleared 03/2025, transferred IP’s embryo in 05/2025 & baby born on 01/26/2026! I highly recommend STS for both first time and experienced surrogates. Even after i completed my journey, i was reached out to about meeting up with Ashley C. & Ashley M. since they would be in my state for a conference. I had a wonderful time meeting and hanging out with them both! 🫶🏼…
Working with STS as a first time surrogate was one of the best decisions ever! Ashley C’s guidance and involvement with me at every step of the process always made me feel safe, comfortable, and supported. From screenings, to matching, to pregnancy and delivery, STS was there for me every step of the way making sure my journey was as flawless as possible! I cannot think of even a single complaint about my experience being a surrogate with Stronger Together Surrogacy, they’re simply THE BEST!
Working with STS as a first time surrogate was one of the best decisions ever! Ashley C’s guidance and involvement with me at every step of the process always made me feel safe, comfortable, and supported. From screenings, to matching, to pregnancy and delivery, STS was there for me every step of the way making sure my journey was as flawless as possible! I cannot think of even a single complaint about my experience being a surrogate with Stronger Together Surrogacy, they’re simply THE BEST!
Ashley and her team were absolutely incredible. We feel so incredibly lucky to have worked with her agency for our surrogacy journey. Ashley was warm, attentive and supported both us and our incredible surrogate throughout the entire process. She’s always responsive and gave us so much confidence throughout the whole process. We can’t recommend STS enough!
My experience with STS has been nothing short of wonderful! Ever since my very first phone call everyone has been so caring and supportive, which is needed for a journey this big! It was an easy decision to choose this agency when I decided I was ready to be a surrogate.
Stronger Together Surrogacy has been so supportive through the whole process of my first surrogacy journey. Every single question I have asked each person who works at STS has been so helpful! This journey has been so amazing and I couldn't imagine having another agency behind be! My coordinator checks in on me regularly and makes sure I have everything I need! I'm so grateful for the continued support and guidance as I get ready for my first embryo transfer!! Thank you STS!!
First-hand experiences from intended parents and surrogates in our Facebook group.
Visit Facebook groupI love Stronger Together! On my second with them, I was one of their first surrogates when they started too. Not a huge agency so you definitely feel like a priority always. Ashley the owner is so supportive and everyone is so attentive. I feel like base pay and incentives are higher too. Definitely recommend STS!
One of the best IMO. They are supportive, definitely allow changes, matched quickly and offer a very fair benefit package. Happy to answer any other questions!
I am in the middle of my journey with them. I did make a few changes. So far my coordinator has been great. No complaints from the agency but I have only been in contact with my coordinator, which I really preferred. When talking with some other agencies I was tossed around to a few different people. I would highly recommend them. They are a smaller agency but I like that it feels more personable and I’m not just a number.
I completed my journey with stronger together surrogacy and it was amazing! Great communication on their end and its not a huge agency so it's more personal 🥰 good luck!!
